新(xin)人(ren)該(gai)不(bu)該(gai)給(gei)領(ling)導(dao)(dao)送(song)(song)(song)禮？剛畢業入(ru)職(zhi)(zhi)一家保險公司，家人(ren)催他(ta)給(gei)領(ling)導(dao)(dao)送(song)(song)(song)禮，可(ke)(ke)他(ta)本人(ren)覺(jue)(jue)得(de)(de)(de)同(tong)事應(ying)該(gai)是自(zi)然相處，而(er)不(bu)是刻意(yi)(yi)的(de)(de)討好。對于(yu)該(gai)不(bu)該(gai)給(gei)領(ling)導(dao)(dao)送(song)(song)(song)禮，他(ta)有點為(wei)難。曾(ceng)經的(de)(de)自(zi)己(ji)(ji)，那時候也是剛入(ru)職(zhi)(zhi)場，總(zong)覺(jue)(jue)得(de)(de)(de)自(zi)己(ji)(ji)菜鳥(niao)一個很多不(bu)懂，總(zong)得(de)(de)(de)麻煩同(tong)事和領(ling)導(dao)(dao)，于(yu)是覺(jue)(jue)得(de)(de)(de)不(bu)好意(yi)(yi)思，就想(xiang)著該(gai)不(bu)該(gai)送(song)(song)(song)禮，表達(da)自(zi)己(ji)(ji)的(de)(de)謝意(yi)(yi)，同(tong)時也想(xiang)借著送(song)(song)(song)禮，讓大家再繼續關照和包容(rong)自(zi)己(ji)(ji)。如(ru)今回想(xiang)起來，這(zhe)是不(bu)自(zi)信的(de)(de)一種表現，覺(jue)(jue)得(de)(de)(de)自(zi)己(ji)(ji)是新(xin)人(ren)，給(gei)領(ling)導(dao)(dao)送(song)(song)(song)禮，才能(neng)得(de)(de)(de)到關照，才能(neng)在(zai)職(zhi)(zhi)場上順(shun)遂(sui)的(de)(de)走下(xia)去，把(ba)自(zi)己(ji)(ji)能(neng)否干好這(zhe)份工(gong)作的(de)(de)可(ke)(ke)能(neng)性，壓在(zai)領(ling)導(dao)(dao)身上，而(er)不(bu)敢相信能(neng)靠自(zi)己(ji)(ji)的(de)(de)努力走好職(zhi)(zhi)場這(zhe)條路。
而通過這些(xie)年(nian)的(de)(de)工作也明白了，其實送(song)(song)(song)(song)禮(li)不(bu)(bu)送(song)(song)(song)(song)禮(li)，關(guan)系真的(de)(de)不(bu)(bu)大(da)，最關(guan)鍵還是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)看個(ge)人(ren)在工作中的(de)(de)表現(xian)，能否讓領(ling)導省心(xin)幫領(ling)導解決問(wen)題(ti)，才是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)最好的(de)(de)取悅領(ling)導的(de)(de)方(fang)式。所以(yi)職(zhi)場(chang)新(xin)人(ren)的(de)(de)建(jian)議是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)送(song)(song)(song)(song)禮(li)沒(mei)必要，加倍努力讓自(zi)己(ji)(ji)盡快(kuai)適應職(zhi)場(chang)才是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)出路，但(dan)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)如果其他同事都(dou)有(you)送(song)(song)(song)(song)禮(li)，單(dan)單(dan)自(zi)己(ji)(ji)沒(mei)送(song)(song)(song)(song)，就顯得不(bu)(bu)合群了。當然了，送(song)(song)(song)(song)禮(li)也不(bu)(bu)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)件(jian)壞(huai)事，禮(li)送(song)(song)(song)(song)的(de)(de)好，能拉近與領(ling)導的(de)(de)距離會前程錦上(shang)添(tian)花，但(dan)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)若(ruo)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)沒(mei)講究的(de)(de)隨(sui)意送(song)(song)(song)(song)，反(fan)而會讓關(guan)系變得尷尬(ga)，還不(bu)(bu)如不(bu)(bu)送(song)(song)(song)(song)。
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